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About Sex !Sexual Information and Advice  In the following pages I have collected advice and information about various aspects of sex including hetrosexual sex,anal sex and male and female masturbation as well as Gay and lesbian pages and websites.Sex besides its obvious function of propogation of the species also offers pleasure to both partners albeit it is an experience which it appears only 'homosapiens' can enjoy. For the animals it is a ritual which is performed at certain times of the year just to propagate and ensure the survival of their species. For us however whether we are hetrosexual, bi-sexual, lesbian or gay throughout our lifetime it can provide endless pleasure. Never let it be believed that older people cannot enjoy sex well into their old age.These pleasures can be in many ways and foreplay leading to the final sexual act can range from minutes to hours depending on the experience and time available to the partners. Foreplay is the 'magic' ingredient which appears to set us aside from most other animals. Here is advice from the website Sexinfo101 which encapsulates a way to approach it. Sexual ForeplayHow to !Foreplay is a fundamental part of the
whole lovemaking experience. Most men and women experienced in sex
will agree that the best sexual encounters should include long and
sensual foreplay. A more attentive form of foreplay will bring
Both partners need a little extra spice to get fully aroused and achieve maximum pleasure. The man may need to prolong foreplay to get an erection and the women will usually need the same to become properly lubricated. There is no such thing as spending too much time on foreplay. The trick is to start intercourse when both partners are fully aroused and having a hard time controlling their desires from foreplay. Foreplay includes a range of activities such as undressing, kissing, petting, and oral sex; but you can add your own thoughts to the list. Sensitive foreplay is so important to good sex because it will help both partners enjoy sexual intercourse more, and it will especially help women reach orgasm more often. Most woman need prolonged stimulation in order to reach a complete arousal, and foreplay will provide them with the required encouragement. There is no such thing as the definitive foreplay; it is not about pressing the right buttons in the right order. It is about understanding what makes your partner tick and supplying those things that make the experience exceptionally pleasurable. There are many ways to give your partner extreme pleasure, and it all begins in the brain. Compliment their appearance or other attributes, especially if they have a low confidence level; show them that you care about them and what they enjoy. Creating the right environment for sexual intercourse is all about paying attention to the details, which is especially important at mature stages in the relationship. For example, make sure the room is warm, the lighting subdued, and the appropriate music is playing. Once the mood is right, take the time to undress each other slowly, because the act of removing your partner's clothes can be an important part of successful foreplay. Many find that undressing increases the eroticism - stimulating and intensifying the feeling. During foreplay, go slow; begin by kissing and caressing. A kiss is usually the first physical
expression of love and desire, but it is also often forgotten during
sexual intercourse. During intercourse, kiss the different parts of
your partner’s body, and don’t be restricted solely to the mouth.
Most women complain that their partners don't kiss long enough and
rush the movement directly to the genital area. Don't be shy to
experiment on every part of the body (for example, many women enjoy
particular kissing and nibbling attention to the neck and
shoulders), and remember to prolong the foreplay with more kissing
and caressing.
Another reason foreplay is important is for the learning experience. Foreplay is the perfect time to spend time understanding what your partner likes because without that, you will never understand what they really need to be fully stimulated. Don't be shy; ask for feedback and also give your own. Both partners gain from good communication during foreplay and lovemaking. If words fail you, either SHOW or GUIDE your partner in the direction you want, and encourage them to do the same. Remember that only by communication can we understand what is required to improve, and that practice makes perfect! Finally I suggest that anybody who is looking for more advice goes to Sexinfo101 where there many more examples than I can show hereSexual Positions
man can enter deep into her vagina with his penis.The man can either lie flat on the woman if he is not too heavy in weight and if it is not uncomfortable for her, or he can support some or all of his weight on his elbows, hands or knees (sometimes the weight of the man on them can restrict a woman's pelvic movement).The woman can wrap her legs around her partner at various heights: resting on the back of his upper shins or thighs, around his buttocks or back, or over his shoulders. She can wrap one or both legs around him Generally, the higher she lifts her legs, the deeper the penetration.The woman can use her hands freely to caress the man or stimulate her clitoris as the man has limited use of his hands, but it is a good position for being able to see each other and for kissing and for caressing (Some women do not like the deep penetration of this position) Woman on Top In the woman-on-top/astride position the man lies on his back and the woman sits on his erect penis.  Facing him, she may squat on her haunches OR facing him, she may kneel, supporting herself with her hands, making it easier to lean forward and kiss his mouth. Sitting on top, facing away from him, increases the depth of penetration. Lying with her whole body along his increases the intimacyOn top the woman can control the pace of lovemaking and regulate the depth of penetration and the rate of thrusting of the penis. Rear entry position is not the same as anal intercourse. In rear entry position the man's penis enters the woman's vagina when she has her back to him. Whereas, in anal intercourse the man's penis is inserted into his partner's anus (rectum). It allows for deep penetration and vigorous thrusting rather than tender lovemaking so is not really suitable during pregnancy. How To Do
This position allows for deep penetration. The woman gets on on her hands and knees and her partner kneels behind her (commonly known as 'doggy style'. Both partners may stand with the woman bending forward and supporting herself against something, bed, furniture, wall, etc.. Both partners lie on their sides, her back to his front. The position allows the man to caress his partner's breasts, buttocks and clitoris
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increased pleasure to both partners, and make any sexual experience
more satisfying.